The sign of a successful road trip is when everyone says “That was great! We have to do that again!”
We recently took a two night road trip to the Yakima River Valley in eastern Washington and everyone (Grandma, my husband, and I) said “That was great! We have to do that again!”. Score one for planning! And for being willing to adjust the plans.
I planned this road trip carefully using some of the things I have learned during the past few years.
Using Lessons Learned
- I contacted the hotel directly to make sure that Grandma had a handicap room. The hotel was in the middle of the valley making it easy to explore both sides.
- I researched the area and had a list of different types of things to see and do depending on energy levels, weather, and time available (including opening and closing times for tasting rooms-Yakima Valley is wine country).
- We used scenic drives as activities. This doesn’t come naturally to me, but Grandma really enjoys scenic drives.
- I tried to limit the time sitting in the car to 2 1/2 hours or less. When Grandma sits too long she gets stiff and has a harder time getting out of the car and walking, it seems to affect her balance as well.
- It turned out we didn’t need it, but, at Grandma’s request, we took a raised toilet seat along. This provided peace of mind. (In a previous outing we had a few scary moments when I wasn’t sure I could get her up off a toilet in a restaurant. Here is the story ).
Some of the success of this road trip was because our planning was around reducing stress not creating a detailed agenda. Some examples: We didn’t try to drive back to Seattle (a 4 hour drive) after sight-seeing. We had a bunch of options, but only two things we wanted to accomplish: taste some wine and buy some apricots. We had a raised toilet seat so we knew we could make critical logistics work.
In some ways my aversion to road trips is an asset: I am very willing to pull over to check out a view point or interesting looking park. Here are a few examples:
Another example was the Teapot Dome Gas Station. We saw the historical marker sign for it and thought “that looks like fun”. The sign led to a serendipitous trip on back roads. The station itself was pretty cute and in a pretty area. A very pleasant break
A little later we missed a turn for a planned winery stop. That resulted in a drive through a rural area we would not otherwise have seen. We got up close to the orchards and even saw a coyote slinking across the road between orchards. This detour resulted in just being out in the countryside, and it was one of our favorite parts of the trip.
We did eventually get to the winery, and the woman there gave us two tips that made the trip home summa cum laude. She recommended doughnut peaches and a fruit stand that sold them, and she told us about the Yakima River Canyon Road.
Lessons I Learned from This Road Trip
- Planning is important, but relax and let unplanned good things happen. As a Japanese friend of ours used to say “balance, ne (“ne” kind of means “you get it, don’t you?”). I have to keep learning this since I tend to be…well…a bit anal.
- Pretty scenery is enough.
- Back-up plans are worth having, even if you don’t use them they reduce stress. Grandma only used the Duet as a wheelchair one time during the trip, and we never had to use the raised toilet seat. However, just knowing we had the ability to deal with adversity allowed us to relax. That made us enjoy the trip much more than if we had those little niggling worries at the back of our minds.
- Don’t try to do it all in one go. There is joy in the thought of a future trip.
Time for Sharing (Use the comment box to respond)
- Do you have any tips for road trips? (Maybe something that you take along to make things easier, or details you check into before heading out.)
- Are there areas near you that make a good one or two day trip for people who are mobility challenged?